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Hunger Hero: Mary K. Hoodhood

The Presidential Citizenship Medal recognizes American citizen who have

“performed exemplary deeds of service for their country or their follow citizens.”

 

When I was a special education teacher and then an assistant principal, many of my “kiddos” lived in extremely impoverished conditions (including in some cases no running water or sheets for doors in their trailers).  I have known first-hand the ache of wanting to help children feed their bellies or find safe shelter.  My friend, Mary K. Hoodhood, has experienced this as well. 

 

When the Ford factories closed in Grand Rapids, Michigan, many families who once could provide, no longer could.  It was during this time that Mary Ann Prisichenko, who is a school principal, explained to her friend Mary K. that she caught kids digging through a trash can… searching for their dinner.

 

This story reminded me of my former elementary students who were hungry.  They struggled with learning and retaining information.  Often they were sick.  They were frequently in a survival-mode thinking of their physical hunger needs instead of being able to focus on the task at hand such as learning their multiplication tables.  There are many children around the country with similar needs.

 

According to the Share of Strength: No Kid Hungry’s Childhood Fact Hunger Sheet (2011):

  • More than 16 million children in America are at risk of hunger. That’s more than 1 in 5.
  • 15.7 million children in America live in poverty.
  • Over 20 million children get a free or reduced-price school lunch on an average school day.

Mary K.’s organization Kids' Food Basket successfully meets the needs of the children in her town.  It is so empowering for the over 150 community members volunteers each day to pack and deliver these sack suppers, particularly when you learn that some kids know that they are making their own dinners. Currently, the Kids Food Basket serves over 4,800 children at 32 schools, along with a summer program that serves hundreds of kids.

Hearing her story on Ray Leonard’s radio show, doing an interview to fill in the gaps on the phone, attending a KFB fundraiser, and interviewing this incredible woman on camera was fabulously inspiring to me personally.  I continue to be blown away by her passion for the cause.  I was also moved to tears by the love between her and her husband.  She told me about Jeff in the following excerpt from the book which explains a part of what it was like to wake up as a quadriplegic…

EXCERPT FROM

Ordinary People Extraordinary Planet

 

“I have been married to my husband, Jeff, now for thirty years.  I recall when I woke up after the accident, my first thought was,‘Jeff will never leave me.’ I knew in my heart that even though we were not yet married, he would be by my side.  He says with a grin that he knew ‘he couldn’t let this one get away.’ Even though others were concerned that caring for me would take a toll on our relationship, we have proven how strong our love is for each other.”

 

It is seeing first hand this type of love and self-less service towards others that fills my heart with great joy.  I am delighted to be the storyteller to spread the inspiration.  Thank you to Mark K. Hoodhood who received acclaim from Lifetime Television and the Presidential Citizenship Medal.  If you want to help, please visit Kid’s Food Basket’s website.  Even if you can’t donate money, check out how a group of children can color lunch bags to brighten the day of children in need. 

 

Please let me know if you were moved by Mary K. Hoodhood’s story in this post and in greater detail in Ordinary People Extraordinary Planet. Think about all the things you are capable of doing and then utilize your skill sets as Mary K. does daily!

 

Go Big or Go Shelter

One of my mottos has always been, "Go big or go home."  I have been heard saying this phrase at the gym while lifting, when pumping up an audience, or encouraging a friend.  According to the Urban Dictionary this phrase means:

 

"...an expression the speaker says to the listener to encourage the listener to be extravagant, to go all the way, and do whatever you are doing to its fullest - and not flake out."
 

I try to I live this daily, for instance when I spoke to over 1,400 people at Pepperdine University's Convocation regarding my life story and my book Ordinary People Extraordinary Planet...

Or while performing at one of my fundraisers for the Homeless Children's Education Fund...

The reality for me though is that I am a teacher at heart. I adore the stage and taking on a role... but there is something about a small colorful carpet in a classroom or a homeless shelter that brings out the teacher in me.
 
Here I am last week at the transitional shelter Healthy Start reading a story to kiddos... 

 

 

  

 

 

 

If you have a calling, such as I do to educate, entertain, and inspire... I would suggest that you get to it!  I would suggest that you get to it! But remember that while it can be good to take it "over the top" at times... make sure you take time to back to your roots... where you began to fall in love with your mission.  Lead with your whole heart while you create precious moments and a terrific foundation for your future!

 

The Smile on the Face of a Homeless Child

Tonight, my 4-year-old Alyssa and I ventured out on our first volunteer project together.  We began with a story from about when I started volunteering at 12 years old with students with special needs during our long car ride.  She likes the idea of volunteering because it has always been something I have spoken about with great joy while raising over $35,000 for the Homeless Children's Education Fund (HCEF).  In fact, for the past two years, Allie has raised money for “mommy’s homeless kids” by collecting nickels and dimes and was recognized by the HCEF for her service.  I am very proud of her!

 

We walked into the transitional housing together.  The aroma of greens, chicken, and sweet potatoes filled the air.  The awesome dinner was cooked by one of the women from the shelter.  It was wonderful to start the evening out like this as we broke bread with the kiddos and their moms.

Then Roy Juarez, Jr. and I did an on-camera interview filmed by Dreamcatchers Films.  Roy has been "couch surfing" around America with his Homeless by Choice Tour about when he was homeless at 14 years old with his baby brother and young sister. I first met him through Ray Leonard the radio host at kmr-media when we featured Roy in the book Ordinary People Extraordinary Planet.  It was incredible to have his personal understanding of what these kids are facing there with us in the shelter. 

 

After our interview, I went up upstairs and got the Luv My Woobie, Inc. ® blankets.  In my immediate family, every Christmas morning we would stand at the top of the steps as my dad would check and see if Santa was gone and the coast was clear.  It felt like that for me as I asked the kids if they wanted their blankets.  They raced down the flights of stairs and burst into the playroom.  My Allie helped me to pass out the blankets to the babies and toddlers.  One precious one was literally 4 days old.  Yes… 4 DAYS old.  We were awe struck by the baby’s newness and beauty…

The kids loved their blankets.  I want to thank the mothers for allowing us to show their adorable faces on this site.  The littlest ones got pacifiers to tuck into the built-in blanket pockets from Luv My Woobie, Inc.

For the slightly older ones, my daughter realized that the kids needed something for the their woobie pockets, so the night before she went to her toys and brought out two little hands full of pocket-sized toys to let the kids pick. 

 

After the woobie blanket drop (which is simultaneously happening this week in an LA shelter and in with Getrude Matshe in Zimbabwe through the Africa Alive Education Foundation the babies who were orphaned by AIDS)... I got to read the Eric Carle book Polar Bear Polar Bear What Do You See? Complete with a story teller apron, the stuffed animal attachments and the beautiful kids crawling on me naming the animals and the sounds they make. It definitely brought me back to my teaching days!

Following the bedtime story snuggled up in their woobies and yummy cookies, the adults went to the community center room and we were joined by teenage boys from a local shelter. After I introduced him, Roy Juarez told his incredibly powerful story.

 

As I tucked my Allie in tonight, we reminisced about the babies, especially the one who attached herself to me...

Alyssa said to me as we snuggled warm into her own bed as she clutched her woobie, “I am glad we aren’t homeless. I liked helping those cute babies.”  Please buy your baby a blanket at www.luvmywoobie.com so that we can continue to help blanket the world with love and kindness, because for every one purchased... a special woobie is made for a child in need!

Super Heroes Welcome!

 

Superman changed in a telephone booth.  Now we now all have cell phones and there are no booths or any private space in sight. Many of the women I know seem to shove their capes into diaper bags hidden under the wipes or into the bottoms of their purses edged in between their favorite lip gloss and crumpled old post-it notes.  We don’t even whip them out to turn into super heroes for our families, co-workers, and charities we support… we just make it happen.  Day-after-day...  Well, Batman had his fabulous bat cave he could retire to after a long day and he had a fabulous sidekick Robin. 

 

That’s what we all need.  Not the gadgets and gizmos… or even the ability to leap buildings in a single bound.  Instead we need a personal space where we can relax and be ourselves and friends to support us in our journey while we “Save the day!”  I want this blog to be a space for comfortable discussions and reflection, together.

 

Lately, I have been doing multiple interviews, keynote addresses, and promotional events around my 5th book Ordinary People Extraordinary Planet based on Ray Leonard's radio show heard in 75 countries.  How was I to know I would meet so many Superwomen (and some awesome male super heroes like Roy Juarez, Jr. of the Homeless by Choice Tour) as I zipped around between my multiple jobs?  My full time career as a professor at Robert Morris University, years of volunteer work for the Homeless Children’s Education Fund, book promotion, consulting work, public speaking, and being mommy to two children I adore… how did I connect with these awesome people?  Sometimes it was networking (as my co-author Dr. Bavaro and I taught in Mentoring Magic: Pick the Card for Your Success) and other times it was simply fate or friendships that have stood the test of time.  I feel incredibly blessed that I have such amazing people in my life. 

 

If you are one of my dear friends or would like to be…  I want to say THANK YOU and invite you to check back here to my new blog to see where our hidden capes can take us.  I want to hear about you.  Your hopes, missions, obstacles, and how you rise above them to help others.   Together, like Superman we will go, “Up… up… and away!”

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